Vulnerability, Honesty, and Rock and Roll

As a drummer (who is always behind the kit, with no microphone) leading team building events, I personally feel EXTRA vulnerable: totally naked without my precious drum kit in front of me!

However, after every event, I feel personally energized by spreading the joy of music to others, even though public speaking does not at all come naturally to me (I grew up with a severe speech impediment). 

 I tell stories from the road, talk about my bands successes and obstacles…instead of the fear of vulnerability crippling me, I ‘Judo’ the emotions into something positive: Empowerment. 

For most of us, being vulnerable in the workplace (and outside) can be very difficult, if not impossible. It’s very comfortable having our shields up not to not speak up when compelled. 

Once thing I’ve learned from living on the road with Delta Rae for the past 10+ years is that open and honest communication always yields the best results musically. In the years of holding Drum Team Collective events, I’ve learned that the most open and honest groups tend to have the most fun and glean the most out of our sessions. 

Trust-falls, icebreaker games, ropes courses…those are all fine ways to build trust with your team. 

But playing live music, which by its very nature promotes vulnerability and honesty, can bond a team like nothing else on earth. 

I’ve watched it happen time and time again, both with the bands I’ve worked with on stage and with Drum Team Collective programs. 

Music is communication. Music is honesty. Music is empowering.